I met Helena about 50 years ago, when she became my brother's mother-in-law, and during that time we enjoyed many family occasions together, especially at Christmas. Helena was always very easy-going and laid back, and was a calming influence during chaotic family celebrations. I shall always remember those Christmases, with Helena sitting quietly in the corner, glass in hand, dispensing wisdom and always available for a chat and a laugh. I know she will be very deeply missed.